Thursday, September 24, 2009

Bereavement




be·reave

To leave desolate or alone, especially by death

Archaic To take (something valuable or necessary), typically by force.

be·reave'ment n., be·reav'er n.

The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition
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"The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing... not healing, not curing... that is a friend who cares."

(Henri Nouwen)

*Photo by unknown author, entitled "Bury my Heart"



Buried Love

I have come to bury Love
Beneath a tree,
In the forest tall and black
Where none can see.

I shall put no flowers at his head,
Nor stone at his feet,
For the mouth I loved so much
Was bittersweet.

I shall go no more to his grave,
For the woods are cold.
I shall gather as much of joy
As my hands can hold.

I shall stay all day in the sun
Where the wide winds blow, --
But oh, I shall cry at night
When none will know.

Sara Teasdale